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The funeral for Ray was today.
I didn't go.

Funerals aren't for the dead. They're for the living.  They bring a sense of closure for those that need it.  It shows the family and friends of the dead that the dead positively impacted those around them during life.

I don't feel like I need closure.  I don't know Ray's family and friends, so my presence wouldn't have any direct significance.  I know what impact Ray had on my life and I know that he was admired and loved by everyone else.

I'm going to hike up rock mtn. today and roast one for Ray.